A young couple had elderly neighbors they were quite fond of.
Every Sunday, they made it a point to visit the older couple, sharing coffee and conversation.
During these visits, they noticed something: the elderly lady always brought the coffee jar to her husband to open. It happened every time.
Wanting to be helpful, the young man secretly gifted the old lady a gadget designed to easily open jars, showing her how to use it—without her husband’s knowledge. He thought he was making things easier for her.
But on their next visit, much to their surprise, the old lady once again brought the jar to her husband to open!
The young couple was puzzled. Had she forgotten about the gadget? Why was she still asking him for help?
When the moment arose for the young couple to speak with her privately, they couldn’t resist asking about it. Her response left them speechless. She smiled and said, “Oh, I can open the jar myself, even without your gadget.
But I ask him to open it because it makes him feel strong, like he’s still the man of our home. It reminds him that I still depend on him, and that he’s as useful to me as ever.
We’ve shared so many years together, and in the time we have left, togetherness is what truly matters.”
Her words carried a deep wisdom.
Moral: Never underestimate the wisdom of the elderly. While our parents or grandparents may no longer contribute financially, their guidance and love are priceless. Even a tree that bears no fruit still offers shade and comfort—so why would you ever cut it down?
Caring for the elderly and the sick should always be seen as a blessing.